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Honour Your Celtic Roots with a Hand-fasting

handfasting

Hand-fasting is an ancient Celtic marriage tradition, from which we get the expression TYING THE KNOT. As Celtic culture spread from Ireland and Scotland through Britain and into western Europe, hand-fasting evolved to the point that it was incorporated into the religious marriage ceremonies. In some remote areas, hand-fasting became a form of temporary marriage until it was followed up by a real wedding.

The traditional hand-fasting “chord” was made of rope or dyed cloth; it was a status symbol to have an embroidered chord. It was approximately a yard long, and was wrapped about the hands to mimic the Celtic knot, which symbolized unity and everlasting.

When performing a hand-fasting ceremony, I allow the couple to choose between two variations. One is a non-religious version that involves 4 ribbons, and a blessing of their marriage with gifts from the north, south, east and west.

The other is a Christian version, that uses 3 ribbons, representing the Trinity. This is a variation of a traditional ceremony, in which the priest will wrap his stole around the couple’s hands “Those whom God has joined together, let not man put asunder.” William and Kate were handfasted at their wedding by the Archbishop of Canterbury.

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The colour of the ribbons is up to you. Some brides like to choose their wedding colours. Others prefer the traditional hand-fasting colours of white for purity, red for passion, and blue for loyalty. Some couple prefer silk cord, which can be found in craft stores. Many add tassels or charms. Use your creativity!

For both versions, I do a blessing of the hands:

These are the hands of your best friend, full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow and forever. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other. These are the hands that will hold you when fear or sadness fills you. These are the hands that will wipe the tears from your eyes; both tears of sorrow and tears of joy.  These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it. And these are the hands that, even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving the you same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.

 

A Bride’s Guide to Wedding Laces

There are so many different lace patterns, it shouldn’t be difficult to find the perfect one for your wedding gown! Here are a few of the most popular:

Battenberg: A heavier lace with the feeling of a Renaissance fabric

Battenberg Lace

Brussels: Raised lace resembling a flower; very delicate with subtle patterns; also called “daisy lace”

Brussels Lace

Alencon: A design of leaves and rose clusters on a net background, often with an “eyelash” edge

Alencon Lace

Chantilly: Similar to Alencon lace, but without the net; very expensive

Chantilly Lace

Lyon: A fine lace of floral patterns

Lyon Lace

Cluny: A lace of fine linen thread, featuring wheel or wheat designs

Cluny Lace

Venise: A roseleaf pattern featuring heavy stitching and a three-dimensional effect

Venise Lace

Schiffli: A machine-made lace of a cotton/polyester blend

Schiffli Lace

Guipure: Lace with a bold pattern and few connective stitches

Guipure Lace

 

 

What is Your Bridal Personality?

Before you can plan your perfect wedding, you must determine your personal style. It will shine through everywhere on your wedding day, so don’t try to be someone you’re not.

Traditional: You like timeless looks and understated elegance. When planning your wedding, you will follow the etiquette books to the letter.

Romantic: You want your wedding to be straight out of a Jane Austen novel. You love bows, flowers, embroidery, lace−all the trimmings

Dramatic: You love the glamour of Hollywood, and you have what it takes to pull it off. Red roses, slinky gowns, and diamonds give you the look you want.

Free Spirit: You prefer wildflowers to red roses. Your gown will be comfortable and flow freely. You wish you could get married in bare feet!

Sophisticated: You feel at home in Paris and New York. You can spot a Chanel a mile away. “Exquisite” is the word that comes to mind when describing your wedding.

Modern: You believe that “less is more,” and your wedding shows it. You may not be a minimalist, but you certainly like to keep things simple. Ornamentation and excessive decoration is not for you.

Girl Next Door: You are not interested in outdoing anyone. You are comfortable just being yourself. You may want to wear your mother’s pearls on your wedding day.